As we continue this process of waiting, we seem to be talking and trying to learn more about the A B C's of adoption.....
A is for ATTACHMENT - The deep and enduring connection established between a child and their main caregivers, especially dealing with affection
B is for BONDING - The process of developing lasting emotional ties with immediate caregivers, especially dealing with trust
C is for COCOONING - The initial process in the beginning of bringing an adoptive child home and limiting outside interactions beyond the immediate family, so that the adopted child(ren) can try to attach and bond and be immersed in the dynamics of their new family unit
When we do eventually bring our new children home, we will be working very hard at these ABC's.....so please understand that we may need to say "no" to some invitations and not participate in all the activities or usual commitments we are able to do now. Our priority will be to make our children feel safe and let them know that we are committed to them, that they can trust us and that we are their family. There could be some rough days as the attachment and bonding process takes place over time.....please be patient with us, as we navigate this new road we've never traveled and please pray that this process takes hold quickly, deeply and with great joy, trust and affection.
As far as when this process will begin....we are still waiting to hear from The Ethiopian Court system about our Court Date.....and then will set the travel dates for our FIRST trip to Ethiopia. We are trying to be patient and still pray that this first trip will take place before the end of 2011. We'd appreciate your prayers for that too! We appreciate your prayers for both of our kids - for their health, protection and preparation for becoming a Jansen and this whole new world they will be entering.
We remain grateful for your prayers and support~
Dave & Vic + 6
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